Many children talk among themselves about their parents’ mistakes and share them with others. They believe they are justified in doing so. Earlier time, Many parents don’t made fixed asset like house or car, they spent money to feed their kids and make other expense. This is often considered wrong to their child when they grow up. I’ve also seen many elderly parents being mistreated. The situation becomes worse when children scold one parent, some time wife to husband.
You have not lived the life of your parents. Today’s boys and girls give various advice about the society that they have not seen.
Boys and girls judge their parents in different ways.
- Despite having the opportunity to accumulate wealth, he spent it instead of buying land, which is seen as a major mistake by the parents. However, the parents didn’t have enough money to both save. They spent for their good food and education.
- It would have been better if I had been taught in a regular school instead of a madrasa—even a madrasa educated man mentioned this.
- Lending money to someone and facing hardships because of it is criticized by children. Sometime father or mother have loss of money in earlier time. But their son and daughter insult them.
- A second marriage or divorce by the father or mother can greatly affect a child. However, the child won’t fully understand why the parent made such a decision until they are older. Often, children become angry and damage their relationship with their parents. If the child grows up with the father, they may destroy their relationship with the mother, and vice versa. Children should strive to remain impartial. It’s not their role to cause pain by taking sides regarding complaints between parents. Instead, they should aim to maintain relationships with both parents with greater wisdom and discretion.
I have seen many judgemental man who were not present that society and time parents faced. So Please don’t make argument with parents that they did in their life.